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title: Who I Choose to Become
description: A few questions before I build your box.     You bought the workshop, or someone who loves you did. This is where she starts.    Answer what you can. Write the 
url: https://kelliejoart.com/who-i-choose-to-become
date_modified: 2026-10-18
author: Kellie Jo Close
language: en
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A few questions before I build your box.

You bought the workshop, or someone who loves you did. This is where she starts.

Answer what you can. Write the way you talk. Two or three sentences is plenty, and one word is sometimes better. Nothing here has to be right. Goals move, and she can move with them.

I read what you send for one purpose: to choose her stones and herbs and to write the first page of your workbook. I do not interpret you. I am an artist, not a clinician, and this workshop is not therapy.

Nine questions are required. The rest are yours to skip. If forms make you want to crawl out of your skin, answer the required ones and send it.

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			Please enable JavaScript in your browser to complete this form.Please enable JavaScript in your browser to complete this form.Name *FirstLast		
			Email when What
			
		
		Email *PhoneOnly if you want me to text or call.How do you want to hear from me? *
- Email
- Text
- Call

Pick more than one if you like.Mailing address for your box *Street, city, state, and zip.Give her one word. *Not a description. One word that has weight when you say it out loud. Salt. Ladder. Wolf. Hinge. Well. If you have two, give me both and I will ask which one she answers to.What goes forward with her? *Two or three things from your life right now that she keeps: a habit, a person, a room, a skill, a stubbornness. Name them plainly.What stays behind?One thing she sets down. You do not have to be sure, and you do not have to explain it.What does she do with an hour that belongs only to her?Not what you should do. What she does.What magic calls to you for her?A stone, a tree, a season, a creature, a saint, a myth, a color, a weather. Anything. She can hold it. If nothing comes, leave this blank and I will choose from your word.What small things already belong to her?Things you own that could be wrapped into her or hung on her: a button, a charm, a key, a scrap of fabric, a bead, a lock of hair, a line from a letter. You will gather these yourself, so only list what you can find.Where will she live?The shelf, the windowsill, the nightstand, the spot by the kettle. Wherever she will see you every day.Anything I should never put in her?Colors, scents, symbols, stones. If it would make you flinch, tell me here.How tall should she be? *6 to 8 inches9 to 11 inches12 to 14 inchesSmaller is faster to wrap. Taller holds more. Most women choose the middle.What should her head be? *Wrapped in yarn, with a gemstone held inside her headA gemstone you can see. The stone is her head.A wrapped head holds its stone inside, where no one sees it. A stone head stays in view: you can give her hair or a head covering, or leave her bare. If you leave her bare, the wire and glue that hold the stone will show. I set up her armature either way before I ship, and neither choice changes your ship date.How much do you want me to send? *Just the box: armature, batting, two stones, herbs, workbookThe box plus yarn in her colorsThe box, yarn, and a small pouch of trinkets I choose for herThe box and the workbook are already covered. Yarn and trinkets are added at cost, and I will tell you the number before I ship.Anything I should know before I choose her herbs and oils?Allergies, scent sensitivities, pregnancy or nursing, small children or pets who will handle her. I work with dried herbs and essential oils, sometimes both. If you want only one, say so here.If your gift includes a call with me, when do you want it?No call. Email is enough.Before I startPartway throughAfter she is finishedAll three: before, partway, and afterEmail is open to you either way. Not sure what your gift includes? Leave this blank. I know, and I will tell you when I write back.Anything else you want to ask or tell me?
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